Matt Ainsley communication coach in Tokyo
Speak with Confidence.
Grow your Career.

Do you worry how you’re perceived?

Struggle what to say under pressure?

Feel you’re missing the recognition you deserve?


I could be the one to help.
Let's see if we're a fit.

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Do you feel trapped by communication worries?

You’re great at your job, and work hard.
You’re ambitious and want to progress.

But in certain high stake situations, your communication lets you down.
Doubts hijack your confidence and hold you back.

In meetings, a client pitch, or catch up with seniors,
Your gremlin voice says . . .

If I can’t explain myself clearly, they’ll think I’m not fit for this role

What if I say something wrong and get laughed at?!

If they ask a question I can’t answer, they’ll loose trust in me

I’m in a senior role. At my age I should know how to do this!

Do we really need small talk?!

Your communication doesn't support you.

Perhaps you’re new to leadership,
English isn’t your first language,
your life experience is very different,
or you’ve had feedback that hurt . . .

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Instead of a confident voice, you stay quiet, agree with others, or your voice goes shaky.

Or perfectionism runs wild.
You over prepare, stress and lose sleep.

Or to appear in control, you put your 'serious pants' on.
You sound formal and your personality’s gone.

When doubts get really bad, the voice whispers . . .

'You’re not made for this leadership stuff!'

OUCH!!!
You know the longer this goes on, it harms your reputation and career.

You want confidence, but worry you’ll have to become someone you’re not.

You feel stuck and need answers.
Something that works for you.

Matt Ainsley - communication coach
Let's make communication your superpower

Superpower doesn’t mean loud and fake.

It’s growing respect and influence with communication that’s 100% you.
Calm, clear, with personality.

Most people think this means learning ‘technical skills’ from books and courses.
But get frustrated when their confidence doesn't grow.

For years I struggled with this myself.
Was I doing it wrong? Or is something wrong with me?
Until one day it clicked! I realised something big was missing.

MINDSET

Books, courses, even ChatGPT often tell you what you ‘need’ to do on the surface - like project your voice and use open body language.
These are important, but completely miss the elephant in the room.

‘What causes your struggles in the first place?’

Without understanding this,
the technical stuff only masks your internal doubts.

For real confidence, the focus needs to be mindset.

How?
That’s where I come in.

APPLY FOR A STRATEGY CALL
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Hi, I'm Matt

A client once called me Yoda.
We laughed!

He said our work together had unlocked inner wisdom.
A new perspective on communication, himself and others.
His belief, trust, awareness, expression, empathy, and emotional connection.

This was a gamechanger for his confidence, relationships and career.

Although I’m no Jedi master,
I can help you master your mindset and skills.

For 10 years, I’ve helped ambitious professionals

Founders, directors, department leads, doctors, professors, MDs, business owners, designers, ex-military, communicate at a higher level.

Step up to C-suite, deliver a talk at UC Berkeley, win international contracts, give better life saving care, get a raise, create a new revenue stream, pitch and win their biggest ever deal, embrace networking and boardroom banter . . .

Here’s how.

Client Results
Gábor - Industrial designer, london
Beyond confidence and my professional progression, this had impact on everything in my life.


Gábor CASE STUDy
Flo - Senior product manager, london
Self confidence to be authentically you, and better at communicating. Much more valuable than techniques you get in a book or training course.

flo CASE STUDy
flóra - ART director, amsterdam
Matt's sessions unlocked not just my fears but my whole world.
To find new perspective in myself, my work and in others.


flóra CASE STUDy
ALEX - export director, shanghai
The communication skills I've developed have made a remarkable contribution to my career.
We won our first partner in Asia.
alex CASE STUDy
FAN - Chief operating officer, london
Since working with Matt, I've been promoted to COO and won my first big pitch. I never imagined this transformation in such a short time.
fan CASE STUDy
ck - investment analyst, london
This was a life changing pivot point for me. And I got a promotion just by talking to someone at a company event.
ck CASE STUDy
Matt Ainsley in Harajuku Tokyo
Speak With Confidence Program

A four month, highly personalised 1-1 coaching program with me.

To transform your communication doubts into authentic confidence.

To communicate at your best when the pressure is on.
In presentations, meetings, pitches, high value conversations and important 1:1s.

   WHO THIS IS FOR

Motivated professionals growing their careers who understand the value of investing in themself.
Who see a pay rise or promotion, as well as self confidence and connection as a great return on investment.

Big-hearted professionals who value building relationships, and genuinely care about others.
Not just themself.

Action-takers who know ‘stepping up’ means stepping out of the comfort zone, but know the rewards are more than worth the effort.

X   WHO THIS IS NOT FOR

Hustlers wanting cheap easy wins.
Who think self development is an expensive cost.

Quick-fix seekers expecting a magic wand to bring results, without putting in the work and getting uncomfortable.

Alpha types hungry only for status.

Anyone wanting to be told what to do.
eg How to ‘ace’ public speaking.

What You Get

Private 1:1 coaching with me. Highly personalised to you.
Not a cookie-cutter course.

This is a communication adventure that requires courage, curiosity and commitment.

Over 4 months we meet via Zoom every week for the following . . .

8
Coaching Sessions

Eight x 75 minute sessions 1:1 with me on Zoom every two weeks

7
Progress Calls

Seven x 20 minute progress calls - for a boost between sessions

7
Skill Boosts

Exercises that grow your communication intelligence

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Easy Access

Email me - ask anything you want, at any time

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What To Expect

If you put your heart into this you'll get . . .

Confidence and control
the skills to navigate communication when the pressure is on.

Freedom
letting go of doubts, feeling relaxed and free to express yourself in a way that's aligned with you.

Pride and joy
we celebrate your wins. Adventures need to be fun, so be sure to bring your humour :)

Loving support
regular progress calls to fuel your focus, motivation and growth. 

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You’ll build confidence to . . . 

Connect and win trust

Speak with authority, as an expert in your work

Build self belief and resilience

Create opportunity for collaboration

Be vulnerable for greater connection

Use personality and humour

Be spontaneous and handle the unexpected

Be comfortable in the spotlight (AKA fear of public speaking)

Express concepts and ideas simply

Use storytelling to inspire

The Investment

You're not getting a temporary confidence boost.
You're getting transformation.

Meaning . . .

"a deep, sustainable shift in mindset, beliefs, and identity, not just behavioural change. Focussed on altering how a person thinks, feels, and acts at a core level to unlock new potential, rather than merely solving immediate, surface-level problems."

You’re accessing my expertise working with many different clients, all with uniquely individual challenges.

Growth as a leader, a promotion, pay rise, new role . . .
ROI pays for itself.

An investment, not a cost.

Matt Ainsley - communication coach in Tokyo
How This Works

I don’t work with everyone.

But I do work with those ready to take control,
and move toward their bigger goals.

If this is you, next steps are

STEP 1

APPLY
Click the button below and fill out the form.

STEP 2

SCHEDULE
If this program’s right for you, we’ll book a Zoom call.

STEP 3

STRATEGY
We’ll meet for 45 minutes.
To discuss your challenges and goals.

If we’re a fit, we’ll reserve your start date.
Right now, I’m booking 6-8 weeks ahead.

START MY APPLICATION